One in Five Men have a Secret Savings Account
28 Apr
A recent report quoted in the Times says that one in five men have a savings account that their partner knows nothing about. These accounts contain on average around £2000 hidden away from prying eyes. Whilst it is not unusual to have separate savings accounts it may come as a surprise to some women that their boyfriend or husband has a secret account. In contrast only 10% of women had an account that their partner did not know about.
One theory is that men wish to have a portion of their savings which are not accessible to their partners. This isn’t necessarily just money to spend in strip clubs and on the horses. The accounts may be more symbolic than useful although they may also have practical uses. They may be long term investments or instant access savings accounts for day to day spending. They could be used for a variety of reasons: guilt free spending, risky investments or just to ensure a feeling of independence. The fact that it is men who are more likely to have these accounts sheds a little light on the differences between how men and women think about money:
“It comes as no surprise that more men have a savings account unknown to partners, and more men make major financial decisions without their partners. Both on a biological and societal level, men perceive such concepts as ‘success’, ‘dominance’, ‘ambition’ and ‘money’ to be bound up together, leading men to view money as the tangible proof of their personal and work success. The more money that is stashed or negotiated, the higher a man deems his self-image and social standing to be.” – Psychologist Donna Dawson
It might not entirely be based on self image however, consider the rise in divorce rates. A secret account may be a less offensive step for a man to take than a prenuptial agreement. Your partner discovering your secret account may be worse however than both agreeing on a Pre-Nup. Hiding savings (or even worse, debt) is never a good idea however, being open and discussing money must be the best policy.
So if your partner turns out to have a secret savings account should you be worried? Perhaps not but you should necessarily be excited either, only 7% of people with a secret account said that they were saving money to spend on a present for their partner.




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